Hi everyone I know this doesn’t directly go with the topic of the blog but I had to get this off my chest I promise I’ll tie it all into the topic of the blog somehow. I have recently lost a very near and dear friend. She was my best friend. We were basically joined at the hip before she got a new boyfriend and now she won’t even talk to me. She even said i wasn’t a true friend. It hurts even more when I read certain books and think, “why can’t my friendship be like theirs?” or “I wish I had a best friend like that.” She thought it was funny when I told her exactly how I felt about her boyfriend. I would love to reconcile our friendship, but I don’t want it to go back to the way it was before with her ditching me for her boyfriend and always fighting about things. I want my old best friend back. The one who I could tell anything to and joke around with, not the one who got mad at me for stupid reasons. I can’t even remember how many times I’ve sat in my room at night and cried because my friendship with this girl went from complete amazingness to complete nothingness in less than a week. I would work this out with her if she would take the time to actually talk to me instead of ignoring me completely. I don’t know if I will ever get my best friend back and that kills me inside, but it is what it is and I can’t do anything about it until she’s ready to get passed it with me. She is now the 4th friend I have lost in the past 3 years. I’m tired of losing friends because of stupid reasons. I’m done trusting people period. I’m quiet and by myself for a reason, I can’t get hurt if I don’t talk to anyone about things. Granted I do have a few people I do call my friends, but I like being alone sometimes just so I know I won’t be hurt by the ones I thought cared about me.